the incredible 'Love' word

When you first fall in love, it can feel like your entire life is in harmony. You feel totally connected to the other person and you want to spend every waking moment with him or her. You haven't yet noticed the other person's flaws and it's as if the sun rises and sets with this new love in your life. Unfortunately, this phase doesn't last. The newness eventually wears off as reality sets in. The good news is that with the right mindset and attitude, you can keep the magic in your relationship. But when you put your foot in this relationship, willing to commit yourself, it turns out you are being taken for granted and the person who you fall so in love with are not so ready to commit, how does the magic happens? Or can i say, is there magic?


'Love' is a word; which brings you in dream world, where you have unique feelings, affections and an unknown excitement. Some of the people say, it is not the matter of saying or expressing, but just of feeling; it is just a flavor, which you can only taste, not tell to anyone, while other describe that the more you express, less. I’m sure that at least once in your life you have met an ideal couple, who everyone could see was very happy in being together. Love and happiness in life are hard to find, and even harder to be kept for life. So, ideal couples are in fact very rare. Everything depends on both of you. Life is not a toy and the human being is very wild, since he has already inherited too much absurdity in the anti-conscience, the primitive part of his brain. You have to be very careful so that you don’t get involved with people that will only make you suffer! It is too dear to ruin your life for a love that is not worth it. A person who makes you cry is not worth for your love; the person who is so worthwhile for your love is the person who will not want to make you cry.......

Searching for a nice glass of cocktail...

I have always said that life is like a mixture of cocktail, and among the mixtures, consist of family, love ones, friends, problems, worries, happiness and the line goes on and on...Among all these, some people will have more of this, less of that and some will have less of this and more of that…. it’s a mixture of everything. And our concern will be - whether the mixture of cocktail taste nice? or strong, or bitter or even weird? One never knows and of course i do not know…

From time to time, the cocktail will taste differently as we grow together with the journey of life. The ratio of the mixture changes, just like we how we have a certain favorite food when we are young and when we grow older, the food that we once so in love with suddenly just do not taste like how it use to be. So, just enjoy the glass of cocktail you have at the moment and remember the taste and you may or may not have the same cocktail anymore.

Life is really a remarkable journey which for happiness or sadness, richer or poorer, we have to constantly learn walk through it. It may seem tough at times but when the tide goes down, you will feel the more appreciative of your life and yourself as you have brace yourself through the tough times....

Meaning of life

Within each individual lies the need for meaning and how do we perceive meaning? Amidst the hustle-bustle of hectic city life, people often lead their life without even thinking; am i doing something meaningful with my life? Or am i leading a meaningful life? These are the questions that mostly bug our mind after we have been through a series of unhappy events or even a series of seemingly routine life that makes us feel dull and lifeless....It is so easy to become diverted in this busy world and so, to gain the sense of accomplishment and also meaning in life, I will always slow down my pace and develop a clear image of the dreams and goals that i believe will have the most lasting meaning....